Your sexuality isn’t a  problem to solve or a code to be cracked.

It’s a cathedral to sing within…

built for music, beauty, and worship.

Hi, I’m Lillia.

For years, my sexuality was a performance to get through.

On paper, my sex life was good enough.
We did it often enough.
Orgasms happened frequently enough.
But it all felt empty. My pleasure was a task to complete.
We checked the boxes and tried to sleep easy, knowing we had it better than most.

Until one day, good enough wasn’t good enough anymore.
One too many nights passed without my soul feeling touched by sex.
One too many rushed orgasms.
One too many porn-shaped fantasies held me away from the present moment.

I couldn’t keep going through the motions.

So I began listening—
to the desires I held impossibly close to my heart.


I slowed down.
And then, through Tantra, I burned everything that wasn’t true.
From that, came the work I do now.

I guide couples into erotic aliveness through presence, play, polarity, and desire.

My work isn’t about having more sex.


It’s about unveiling the sexual treasure trove that exist within you, waiting to be explored— and meeting your partner there, in the hot, holy, real, and untamed playground you create together.

Connecting with your beloved through your sensual body is meant to be a life-giving and transcendent human experience.

Sex should move your soul.

Sex can wake your whole life up.

  • "Working with Lillia has opened new dimensions in our relationship. Our intimacy has expanded and keeps getting deeper and more liberated."

    - Andrea (London)

  • "Living with powerful turn-on in our relationship gives us so much joy."

    Chloe (Auckland)

  • "I knew there was more spiritual fulfillment and primal freedom possible in our sex life, and Lillia helped us feel even more than we'd hoped for."

    - Andrew (New York)

  • " 'Good on paper' is a great way to describe what we had before working with you. Now we have the kind of sex life we want to brag about to our friends.. even after 10 years together."

    - Bryan (Melbourne)

  • "For so long I had been putting off finding my deeper sexual expression, and now that you've helped me awaken it, I only wish I'd done it years sooner."

    - Kayla (Los Angeles)